Monday, May 14, 2012

First sight...

It was a happy week then, ma parents celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary, me n ma sister were hosting the show at home...relatives all around, his proposal came in a serious note.I was not at all serious then as any other proposal i wen it thru,even after they said they r coming to see me...it has to cover hell of obstacles both of ma family  n of myself like family job education n moreover the main villain the horoscope...

It was on Sunday May 16th,2010 the akshaythritheeya day (the day i pierced ma ears for a secondstud which marked the remembrance day for a lyf tym)he came to see me with his uncle n aunt in redcolour santro.I saw him thru ma window while he was getting down from the car f.I was ready with a salwarkameez attire it was a normal routine 4 me, someone coming to see me ,myself behind ma dad letting me questioned,and of a nervous personal talk session usually starting with job education interests etc etc n to b frank my strategy was to dominate the show whom i wanted to get eliminated off...here it was really a normal kind of a interview session no an argument btwn a mrkting professional n a hr professional...but the main shock or surprise was for my sister as his aunt who accompanied him was working in her college.....

My cousin who was there at home that day, asked my opinion abt the guyn i said,"we physically match n i thing the family too but i dont think so it will happen"he asked me why n i said i'm  not all serious abt marriage it is not at all a priority for me now...but he said firmly that this will be the knot for me n he won the bet... 

Even though i dint tuk it seriously hn it was the day officially we met each other for the first time...

Friday, May 11, 2012

Again after a year break....I am back

More than a year exactly but i have been scanning thru my words quite number of times....why dint i post anything then???? the finger points towads me n i am bound to answer too...

It was the year, i had gone thru the transition phase in my life..
upgraded to a wife to a loveliest man  ..daughter in law no daughter for ma loving parents n sister in law, again sister for the cutest girl in this world..

I donno how i have gone thru the changes,drastic realistic changes from the world of fantasy to the world of reality n responibility!!responsibilty of a new family heading to ma shoulders...

The day since i have finished my pg my parents have started searching for a suitable groom.(am i in the arms of the best suitable man???)registered the in many matrimonials both online n offline, i have been forced to be infront of  a quite number of parents n bachelors....(cant remember the exact no of tea cup n cashew nut packs...hehehhe)

Funny moments...n those days were the most confusing days of ma lyf to take a decision on ma future ma lyf ma lyf partner.the most important decision in anybodys lyf...left to me .. i was scared confused to ratify ma decison,which was totally laid to ma word.i donno how were the days dragging with ma thought process hope n expectations clubbed together...really had a bad tym then...with the facts n realities in front to compromise to adjust on ma views visions etc etc...at last i had to say ma word to him....to hari ma husband!!!!!!!!!!

Now i am happily married moved initially to trichy n now temporarily in chennai....One n half yrs of married lyf was a kind of hibernation period not for me as whole but for ma thoughts...there were many times i badly wanted to pen down or sketch my thoughts but i couldnt for any reason...

I was in a wrong assumption that i can write or sketch only when i am depressed or sad...but now i realised that i can when i am happy too...for the first time now i am writing wen i am relaxed...totally relaxed from all ma tensions...n u can feel it in ma words too..

Yes i am back..back again with a new attitude n new visions n insights in ma lyf....