Wednesday, December 30, 2009

2 states To 2 countries within 2 individuals....

yesterday was really a boring day....Harthal has been declared...working at home i was not pretty much satisfied as its the only rare occasion at home we get mom n dad together with no much hectic schedules other than phone calls for dad....i was like amidst of work reading and many more things in chart also wanted to test some of my culinary skills....but nothing happened as i was assigned some important work which i need to complete the day itself and i wanted to complete '2 states' by chetan bagat which i started the last day ....

i was much interested in the beginning reading the book as the couple struggles to make their love end up in marriage with both the parents side smiling..the Punjabi's n Tamils get together for their children s wish.... IIMA graduates the brainiest in the country struggling hard to set up a living...and their luv....strange to imagine n believe too....my perception about the IIT ians n IIMs may be strange as they are like aliens to the world....merely dipped into the books not much aware of the external world....ive changed my opinion not wholly but to n extent.. some of them may be as any other student njoys lyf in college never mind they r in a premiere institute..

any how i wanted to complete that one as i have got something this weekend in my hand which i wanted to read .... while having my breakfast my dad just commented on a paper ad on a couple getting married yesterday.... a mallu girl marrying an American guy... i was comparing the 2 states with the ad which can be titled as 2 countries...strange..i was thinking its all about the peoples mind n views about the culture people n traditions n more over their approach towards life is wat making them to decide on such social pressured issues... especially Marriage.....

Marrying a person from the community for the sake of parents n relatives or marrying a person whom we feel compatible with..which one is better????? i cant get into a conclusion as its like two sides of a coin...which rarely stands still...

every one in this world whether he is American, Indian, British or Pakistani.....is all individuals who have the same kinda feelings and emotions............rather have a barrier on caste religion states or countries....

India the second largest populated country trying hard to acquire the first position will be the only country separated within the country in states religion n castes...with difference in traditions cultures and values......

It all depends upon the individuals attitude towards the social n personal commitments pressures and relationships which gets the prominence in their life...According to which they build up their status, living,relationships and happiness....

Its all the Family which moulds the generations values n culture which they feel they need to carried thru.....

3 comments:

BabyChirakkal said...

nice to read and think

smalltown_girl said...

i liked the book :)

my review:
http://thebookbabbles.blogspot.com/2009/12/2-states.html

Fowza.. said...

Good one...both..the book and your post..